After it ends – what do I do about…?

Ending relationships is difficult and painful and horrible.

With D/s relationships, in addition to the ‘normal’ stuff, there are often questions that sit on top of the ‘relationship is over’ emotional turmoil that you are going through.

It goes without saying that everyone is different, there are no ‘rules’, and often, even if you *think* you would do one thing, when you are in the midst of it all, the approach that you thought you would take no longer makes sense.

Given I see these quite a bit, I thought I would share some common questions and how I handled … Continue Reading

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Shopping list porn

Oddly, one of my previous posts describing actual kinky things I bought and did not buy led to some inquiries as to what actually WAS on the grocery list I mentioned (you folks are the perviest people EVER!!)…

So, here it is… shopping list porn:

  • smelly cupboard stuff
    [yes, I copied this faithfully from my list word for word… ‘stuff’ is totally valid shopping list terminology!]
  • 30 second outdoor cleaner
    [has been on the list for months, I want to clean a dining room table and chairs that have been outside and are black with mould]
  • hair clip
    [I shove
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“can a submissive man have a normal relationship?”

Yes, yes he can!!!

Hello you, yes you, the one who googled that question and found this blog:

can a submissive man have a normal relationship?

It led you to this post: Advice for the newly minted submissive man

But oh my gosh… I love that you asked that question of google! I do, I love that, thank you!!

Yes, yes you can!!

Stick around, read a little, send me an email, something, but please believe that the answer is ‘Yes’!!!

** Wondering slightly if my version of ‘normal’ is anyone else’s, but for the purposes of this post, I

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Beating to music

Everyone (ok, a bunch of people) has been talking with delight about Rhianna’s S&M video. “Ooohh… hot!!”, they squeal with excitement. No, I am not going to link it here, it is rubbish.

While I can see why some BDSMers are excited about it (yes, I get it), for me, it’s… meh, whatever… same same, boring and stereotypical faux femdom in latex writhes around for the pleasure of men with some background props of men in gags and bondage… *yawn*

But this… this is hot and funny and just fucking hot to me. I wanted… more… I wanted the actors … Continue Reading

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Oh…

I asked for links to pictures of hot boys… and one of them produced something lovely (thank you, dave94… that’s two mentions in as many days!).

There are some images that just work in my head, and sometimes I am not sure why.

This one… makes me feel all swoony, even though the themes in it are kind of hit and miss to me (collar, yes; chastity, yes; chastity device, meh; PIV sex implied by the strap on, meh…)… and yet, and yet… it’s beautiful and sexy and delicious both in his inherent prettiness, his masculinity, his objectification … Continue Reading

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A blogging dilemma

dave94 asked about this post:

“How does this end? Do the two overcome their missed connection and ultimately hook-up? Does the experienced domme introduce the shy newbie to the lifestyle and get him to fall for her?”

They are great questions! Tune in next week for… oh wait…

Come sit here by me on the bench while I tell you of my little dilemma…

It is easy to write about a boy I am already in a relationship with, anything I write might give him a further insight into what I am thinking, but it will not be news … Continue Reading

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Cute D/s coupledom

I found them here. Too cute?

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