Odaxelagnia: the paraphilia involving sexual attraction to biting or being bitten.
Biting is one of my favourites, it is impossibly intimate and can range from gently pleasant to terribly painful… yummy! I did not know there was a term for it!
Sadly the reference to odaxelagnia was removed from Wikipedia with the concern that it is a “Non-notable fetish”.
See, and people say sex blogs aren’t educational!… Continue Reading
I suspect that many of you are familiar with Male Submission Art (if not, why not?!). It is a site that shows beautiful images of male submission that challenge the stereotypes.
Maymay (the founder of malesubmissionart.com) has now created a spinoff called Submissive Secrets. It is a community-based art project inspired by the PostSecret idea.
Submissive Secrets is a forum to tell the stories and share the thoughts, feelings, desires, and fears that submissive men and those who love them have in a way that offers solidarity, compassion, empathy, trust, sympathy, lust, and, of course, love.
The objective is … Continue Reading
Who gets to step out of their front door to go for a walk, and then sees dolphins?
Me!! Me!!! I do!!!
I am so fucking lucky!!!
*happy sigh*
… Continue ReadingFor all the bleating all over the kinky sites on the internet about how male subs are a dime a dozen, they are everywhere, they are common as muck and outnumber dominant women about a billion to one, I have an observation, just one, a single one…
I looked into a bondage workshop that was happening in my local area last week. There was a public list of those who were ‘going’ and ‘maybe going’. Of 59 possible attendees listed there, 2 were submissive men. THIS is what that looks like *:
Just sayin’.
* Wheee, a graph!!! You know … Continue Reading
I’ve never pretended that I was perfect, that would fool no-one, but mostly, I make smart and considered decisions, I am thoughtful, I think about consequences for me and mine, and I try to handle myself and situations ‘for the best’ for all concerned.
I generally have good judgement and exercise it well.
Recently, I failed miserably at this and caused a lot of unnecessary pain and anger for a boy I care for very much.
I looked at a situation and went against my better judgement to make an utterly selfish and thoughtless decision for no reason other than … Continue Reading
I’m at the airport, waiting with my father for a flight to come in.
There is a boy sitting across and a few seats to the right, facing me. I look at him, he looks back at me frankly. I have sunglasses on, I am not sure if my stare is obvious. There is no smile on either side.
He is kind of beautiful, lean, early 30s maybe, a clean attractive face, short hair, sideburns, casual business attire. He doesn’t read or amuse himself with a phone, he just sits there quietly.
My father is speaking to me, we talk … Continue Reading
Sometimes it looks like this:
It’s just not enough is it…? I know I know… so I also have this:
I can’t just leave it at that, of course… I have to TALK about it!
It’s not ‘stomach lurching, ooh must go masturbate’ porn, it’s more
– oh my, look at him…
– I love it when he tries to get up and gets jerked back by the chains…
– his face…
– the sound he makes when he gets up after being kicked…
– his expression then…
– how she grabs idly at his hair, almost affectionate…
– his … Continue Reading