Spider silk

I think of D/s flirting sometimes like throwing spiderweb silk in his direction, and these delicate filaments stick to him, sometimes inadvertently, perhaps he doesn’t even realise that this light gossamer thread has even landed on him, much less that it has attached itself. But sometimes, he sees it clearly, will catch it, examine it, tiny and harmless, then look me directly in the eye and deliberately stick it to himself (see, that image there is incredibly hot to me… *swoon*).

And then he flings one back at me, this light and whisper-thin silk, and I may play with … Continue Reading

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Many kinds of awesome

I headed down to the beach today. There is a path directly across from my new apartment.

Apart from just… well… walking on the beach (yay!), this made me so happy, I had to go back and get my camera to take photos:

*laugh* What kinds of awesome?

  1. Snake! On the beach!!! In all my years of going to the beach, I have only ever seen a snake on the beach once. Of course, it was when I was with an American visitor… I suspect he never really believed me that that NEVER happens… NEVER. I can hear him now,
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Moving house

Step 1: Find somewhere else to live (yay, exciting!)

Step 2: Apply for tenancy, get the go ahead

Step 3: Plan the move, create a spreadsheet with a to-do list (geekery!)

Step 4: Do paperwork for exiting current apartment, redirecting mail, cutting off and connecting utilities, informing a gazillion organisations (each of these requires at least an hour of frustration)

Step 5: Co-ordinate and get quotes for moving, cleaning, carpet steaming, assess quotes and confirm availability with various service providers (this means multiple phone calls and call backs and shifting choices as the prices change and availability is confirmed, or … Continue Reading

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I fucking miss you

I spoke of vulnerability before… here it is:

I posted my secret here (yes, it’s old, you know, of course, that I will not reveal the difficult things until they are behind me…!).

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A Domme’s vulnerability

After all the talk of the amazing openness and vulnerability that I wish for from my submissive, I’ve been considering posting something that shows me at my most vulnerable. It is scary, the showing, even though it doesn’t really matter because the actual terrifying part of doing it is already done, is over.

I rarely take emotional risks, and when I do, they are quiet risks, whispered into someone’s ear, tentatively put on the table for the taking, and this was a quiet risk also. It is the sharing that makes it noisy and loud; that gives me pause, though … Continue Reading

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Real Dommes don’t…

I am recycling my own words for this post. I do that you know, because I am lazy (if you had read my ‘About Me‘ secret confessions, you would know this already…).

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Stabbity wrote a great post here about how ‘real Dommes don’t have sex’, which prompted me to comment thusly:

You kind of touched on this, but didn’t QUITE hit it in the heart. Some Dommes fear losing control when they come, because, you know, Dommes must always be in complete control, cold, steely eyed, blah blah etc.

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Hey, Sydney University… here it is, come get it!

I recently posted search terms that led people to my blog.

I didn’t mention that “Fetlife Sydney University” or some iteration of it was there a few times. I didn’t mention it because, well, it’s not funny, but I thought I would provide a community service announcement about it, to help those people out, so here it is.

Many people put some version of the following text on their Fetlife profiles:

WARNING: Sydney University – You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future.

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