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Shameless self promotion

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I am rubbish at doing my own self promotion, even when I am given a prime opportunity!!

Look look!!! Waaayyy back in October I was on a “Top Sex Bloggers of 2010” list…

This is the list that I forced coerced nagged encouraged you to pimp my blog for in a childish display of petulance and foot stomping, then I didn’t even gloat and show off when I made the list!!

So, a belated thank you to those who nominated me (and also some gloating and unappealing showing off)!!

[ETA Oct 2017: I just discovered that the blogger … Continue Reading

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An invitation

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If I was to invite you, I would be gentle and you would be scared, despite so many, however many years of experience with women, and it would be strange to be scared, and that would scare you, and you would be talking to yourself in your head and telling yourself that it was ridiculous to be scared, of what? It made no sense, none, and still… you would be scared. I would like it that you were scared, and would not give you comfort. I would have you stand with your hands behind your head and look you over, … Continue Reading

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Angus

Car crash

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I have, in the last 7 months, formed a close and very sweet and affectionate bond with a submissive remote from me.

I joined Second Life to explore what it was about. I had time on my hands, I was emotionally wrung out, I was curious, I was skeptical.

I talked to a lot of people there, it is like a series of chat rooms, with pictures… I didn’t ‘get’ SL D/s, but I was curious enough to see if I could make something of it.

With full disclosure that I was using him as an experiment, that there was … Continue Reading

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the other men

More on the InterestingMan WhoMightNeedaCuteNick IfThisGoesAnywhere

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About the InterestingManWhoMightNeedaCuteNickIfThisGoesAnywhere *…

A few weeks ago, I received an email on CM from a local switch whose profile included the fact that he “leans towards the dominant side”. Despite it clearly being a form letter that may as well have been addressed to “Dear Recipient”, it had a line in it that made me laugh, and I was curious enough to respond with more than just a ‘no thanks’. I asked him why a switch with primarily dominant tendencies would be contacting a dominant woman, and suggested that perhaps he would be better off with a submissive who

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sent emails

My sent emails XIV

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Yeah, I know my pictures are teh hot and sexy.

Oh wait.

I don’t have any.

How very puzzling.

I am sure you couldn’t possibly be such an idiot that you send random bulk messages out to anyone who identifies as female and dominant. That would mean you were a wanker looking for someone to tell you how to wank.

Ok, here you go, I will help you out.

Get on your cam, open it up to the world at large and wank until your cock bleeds. Oh what fun!

Ferns

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musing

What does a submissive bring to the party?

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When I play, my submissive doesn’t get to just be the passive recipient of my attention. For me there is a feedback loop between my submissive and me that either works or doesn’t. It can’t be faked, it is part of D/s ‘chemistry’ for me, maybe others call it connection or intimacy or some such, but for me it is a combination of indefinable things. He feeds me with his honest and open reactions (lust, fear, pain, hurt, desire, embarrassment…), he reaches in and gives of himself, and I take it greedily and transform it into something else and point … Continue Reading

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Angus/  musing

From outside

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I watch him hurting and I can’t fix it.

Sometimes I make it worse with a thoughtless comment or a passing throwaway that cuts him, I don’t even realise I have pierced his skin until I see the blood seeping quietly from the wound, until I see him backing slowly away from me. He retires to a corner to lick it, silently curled up into himself, I imagine an accusatory look being thrown my way from his periphery. There is nothing I can do to help, which is a different kind of hurt, a selfish kind maybe, I don’t know.… Continue Reading

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