The proposition leads to a yes leads to a discussion leads to a negotiation.I send him a play list. It lists all the activities that I may want to do with him.
It is not a ‘will do’ list. It is a ‘might, possibly, maybe, if it feels right, these are in the realms of possibility’ list.
He gets to rate them from 0 to 5, he gets to add to them, he gets to say ‘No’.
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This was the first email I sent to my boy waaaayyy back when.
Subject: Your profile
It’s just about perfect. Funny, smart, even more funny, a bit idiotic, clever, totally original and… well, really impressive. I loved it…what a delight you are.
I hope you find what you are looking for. I expect that profile will attract the right attention, hopefully in the right location.
Ferns
A flurry of emails followed after his cute and very funny reply. This is an extract from one that I sent some 3 weeks later:
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I don’t know, of course, what will happen
“I have a proposition for you…”
He looks at me curiously, tilts his head… “Oookkk?”
I smile, “I’m thinking that I’d like to do some rope bondage with you.”
He looks away from me, bondage is one of his kinks, he is a complete newbie, has no experience. He is suddenly shy, awkward, he smiles nervously, starts to say something.
I interrupt him, “Don’t answer now, I want you to have a think about it.”
He nods.
I try to draw a picture of how I see it going, “I am thinking of something very gentle, not sexual, no nudity…” … Continue Reading
I know full well that people’s expectations differ, of course I know that! But I have recently seen a discussion on a BDSM forum that makes me wonder how something that is a fundamental expectation in my relationships, so fundamental that I would not think I would have to stress it, is actually no big deal to others.
Here’s all of the pertinent information from the original post from a submissive:
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Random, unfiltered thoughts… tick tick tick tick…
Things are possible even if you wish they weren’t, or especially then.
She asked for $5 that I owe her… who asks for $5? Especially when she is far away, and it has to be given to another so that the other can put into her bank account… who does that?
My bed squeaks, lucky I am not having sex on it, I masturbate quietly, with terrible images of violence in my head, it still squeaks, though it doesn’t sound like sex, or violence, or anything interesting.
I am a little afraid and … Continue Reading
Hello InterestingManWhoMightNeedaCuteNickIfThisGoesAnywhere,
Thank you for your honesty, I appreciate it, and I do understand. The way I do things will not suit everyone, in fact I would venture to say it suits very few.
Thank you also for the time you have spent corresponding with me, you have been very open throughout and I know that was asking a lot.
I think you have a lot to offer the right woman and wish you the very best in finding what you are looking for.
Ferns
So, what happened? My pace was too slow for him, he honestly and … Continue Reading
Twitter followers already know that I bought two new pairs of shoes yesterday… huzzah!!!
This is the first… a pair of summer sandals, kind of butch with the plain bold straps and ‘fuck you’ buckle, they are a soft black leather with a dark brown wedge heel to femme it up…
Today I wore them out to a late lunch with my vanilla ex who I forced into admiring them and saying how pretty they are… “forced shoe appreciation”… that’s a kink, right?
