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Gorgeous corset photos

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My corset is a beautiful steel-boned under-bust with a red silk dragon brocade. I haven’t worn it since I started working out, so I thought it was high time I did that to see how the fit had changed.

I put it on over a white button-down collared shirt and a grey pencil skirt (think ‘sexy librarian’, complete with glasses prop…heh). I love the hourglass figure it accentuates on me. It *can* be laced tighter, but I can’t pull it in any further by myself.

Here are the results (yes yes, cell phone photos… I’m all class you know!).… Continue Reading

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e[lust] #43

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Look, look!! I made it into the top three posts for the month with ‘Compromise in D/s relationships‘! I haven’t been a top pick in any lists forever (I mean, really, for ages…!). Yay!

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Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #44? Start with the newly updated rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe … Continue Reading

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bambi

Missing him

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So bambi has been offline for the third day in a row**. I am twitchy and restless. I am used to pretty much constant contact when our timezones align.

He is overseas, staying in a small, remote village in a foreign country. He has had internet access in the place he has been staying, but apparently it is now broken. He has only a ‘voicemail-to-email’ cell number, and there are no internet cafes, there is no free wifi ‘in town’, he is essentially incommunicado.

I miss him.

I am relieved and happy that his flights are already booked, … Continue Reading

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femdom relationships/  happy femdom story

Happy femdom story: Katherine (an update)

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Nearly a year ago, I published Aaron’s happy femdom story. As a young submissive, Aaron wrote about finding his feet and how he was lucky enough to meet a wonderful woman with whom to share his explorations.

That wonderful woman is Katherine. I’m beyond delighted that she has sent me an update on how it is going with them. Happiness is not a constant state, not an ‘ending’: we struggle, we work at it, we slip, we fight, we recover, and if we are lucky, we suck as much joy out of it as we can.

I’m so happy … Continue Reading

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bambi/  femdom relationships

Using D/s to get what I want

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Soon after we started speaking, bambi and I talked about fitness. He told me that he was carrying too much weight and was trying to lose it. I told him that if he was mine, I would make him lose the weight (and no, I don’t care one bit how ‘politically incorrect’ that is). A day after we had that discussion, he went and got a gym membership and ramped up his efforts. I enjoyed that reaction a lot.

He sweetly wants to be at his best when we meet. And I *want* him at his best.

A week or … Continue Reading

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bambi/  body project

Me, naked

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All going well (caveat caveat, fingers crossed, baby animals sacrificed and etc…), bambi will be the first man to see the results of my body project.

My nakedness in all its post-working-out glory.

After all this frigging work I have been doing, I expect angels to sing the hallelujah chorus, and a glorious light to stream down from the heavens when I unveil.

Streaming sunlight

Or at least double rainbows.

Not too much to ask is it?

Course not.… Continue Reading

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bambi

Random bambi thoughts

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We are in chat most of the day when we are both awake (normal ‘life stuff’ notwithstanding), even if we are not actually talking all the time. Real time stories of our days.

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I think he worries that I am not getting his best at times. I am not sure what that means exactly. But I’m pretty sure he worries.

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I told him at one point early on that if he wanted to keep my interest, he couldn’t treat me like ‘a mate at the pub’. I don’t have sex with those guys. I can be friends first, … Continue Reading

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