More from the survey results…… Really… I’m not close to done yet!

Why do you read my blog?

Straight female dominant, 36-45

much in common. And – you write beautifully.

Oh, you are me!!! And thank you for the compliment.

Queer Genderqueer. I present, and live, as female, though I also identify as a butch gay man. dominant, 18-35

I like reading the stories and experiences of other dominant women.

I’m glad you can relate. I don’t identify as a gay man, but I have often thought that I would love to play as a gay male dominant. Me, … Continue Reading

Yes, I am totally still milking the survey results…

Why do you read my blog?

Queer female dominant, 18-35

I like having another dominant woman’s perspective on the whole D/s thing. Usually I come across submissive women, which are interesting to read, but I learn more about myself when I read other dominant women.

I am glad, and me too!

Straight female dominant, 18-35

Because reading a blog written by an actual dominant woman makes me feel like a little bit less alone.

Oh, that’s lovely… you are not alone, we are out here. I will start a union…

Homoflexible … Continue Reading

More comments from the survey… If you think I might be close to the end, I’m not! I just hope my roman numerology can keep up…

Why do you read my blog?

Straight male submissive, 36-45

I love wit. Our world is bland and literal. You make me think and laugh with your wit. Plus the intensity, I can hear the panting (you rarely hear that), but it’s hard to tell whether it was you or the boy panting.

Thinking and laughing… two of my favourite things. And I love this: “…I can hear the panting…but it’s hard to tell … Continue Reading

More comments from the survey…

Why do you read my blog?

Straight male submissive, 18-35

well, the subject matter is interesting of course, but mostly i am impressed with your honesty and writing ability. there is something so great about writing that comes from passion, it has a beauty to it that can’t be faked. so, i read it as a submissive and i read it as a lover of good prose.

*smile* Thank you… the ‘writing from passion’ is both a blessing and a curse. I can’t write if I don’t feel it, and that severely limits what I … Continue Reading

Why do you read my blog?

Heteroflexible male submissive, 36-45

Just in case my favourest kink of all were ever to come up. And also: because you make D/s feel not just hot, but poetically hot.

Now, I *know* what your favourite kink is, my dear friend (I am magic like that… ) and the likelihood that it is going to come up in a post is … errrmm… about 50-50. And thank you for ‘poetically hot’ – I love that!

Heteroflexible male submissive, 18-35

I enjoy getting all kinds of perspectives on kink, and your perspectives are particularly well

I’ve been trying to figure out how to post the ‘free text’ parts of the survey. To me, they are the most interesting responses because you all got to say whatever you wanted, but obviously, there is no way to categorise them, nor do I want to try and fit them into little boxes.

So, I have decided to slip them in at random, little snippets of feedback drip-fed through the posts in no particular order. They are sweet and touching and funny and totally lovely and it makes me happy to share them.

Here is the first set of … Continue Reading