QnA

Reader Q&A transcribed: Finding partners, kidnapping, spanking, threesomes

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I asked my amazing ‘man who knows everything’ if he could find some free software to transcribe my last podcast for those who might be hearing impaired, or those who just don’t like audio.

He is such a sweetheart that he came back with ‘Yes, I’ll look into it’ AND THEN HE MANUALLY TRANSCRIBED THE AUDIO FOR ME *swoon*.

So for the lovely Coug and anyone else who prefers text over audio for whatever reason, here’s my podcast transcribed. 30 minutes of talking is ungodly long in text: just sayin’.

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cougarling/  femdom dating

The cougarling

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I rarely talk about potentials here for a bunch of complicated reasons.

Firstly because they usually know about my blog and talking about my feelings while exploring something new is confusing and destructive. If I write about it honestly, it’s more information than I am ready to share with them. Since these things are always tenuous and volatile, my thoughts are often all over the place, and blurting them out when they are fleeting and changeable can cause all sorts of confusion and hurt.

Secondly because conversations that have the potential to turn into something have pretty much equal potential … Continue Reading

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audio/  podcast/  QnA

Reader Q&A: Femdom podcast #93 – Finding partners, kidnapping, spanking, threesomes [Audio]

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All the audio porn!

The Domme Chronicles femdom podcast is available on iTunes, so you can subscribe to it if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered straight to your ear holes.

In this one, I address the following reader questions:

  • How do you polish an apple (no, that’s not a euphemism)?
  • How do I choose a name and start controlling a sub?
  • Have you been in a relationship with someone who had a kink that was a hard limit?
  • Solicitation from a 69(heh) year old in Florida
  • Kidnapping fantasies?
  • Scammer warning (because always!)
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award/  top pick

Top 100 Sex Blogs 2015: Top ten, baby!

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This year the fabulous Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss took on the monumental task of putting together the Top 100 Sex Blogs list for 2015.

I’m beyond thrilled to be in the top ten. TOP TEN! I may have squeed.

In the tradition of all respectable awards, I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who reads my blog; to the silent readers, to you lovely folks who take the time to comment, to the sweet ones who send me emails, to all of you who give me encouragement with your quiet presence and your … Continue Reading

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musing/  QnA

Dominant roots

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A question on Fetlife:

Is your dominance shaped by a reaction against anything?

The answer to this is complicated. I think we all look back into our past for confirmation of ‘who we are’, so there is a lot of bias in that kind of hindsight.

Sexually I vividly remember rape play with barbie and ken dolls (my sister was horrified and never let me play with hers again), and finding a deliciously dirty non-con sex novel outside a church while riding my bike. Both made me tingle in that breathless way that doesn’t quite have a focus when you … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #79

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Welcome to Elust #79 –

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #80? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

The Joy of Sucking Cock

Making Porn

My Valentine

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

The One

Midweek Fantasizing – The Portrait

~ Readers Choice

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femdom dating/  vanilla

(non)Adventures in vanilla dating

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Despite my best efforts, I have not yet lined up any more dates other than my last.

And by ‘best efforts’, I mean ‘I invited men who I thought were even marginally interesting to go out with me’. That number is not high, but it’s more than zero and is a huge departure from my normal process where I won’t meet anyone until I genuinely and absolutely think there is real potential. Dating immersion, yo!

When I suggested a meeting to one, he balked and it turns out that the app I’m using showed me as being closer to … Continue Reading

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