Happy 2016!

January 7, 2016 18 Comments

To all of my fabulous readers and commenters, thank you for your support and loveliness over the past 12 months (and longer for many of you!). I hope that 2016 brings you and yours much joy and love.

I am emerging from several weeks spent with 24/7 family familyfamilyFAMILY. Given I’m an introvert and they are lovely but difficult people, I am mentally and emotionally depleted. When I got home yesterday, I blasted some music and danced around the house: bliss!

In lieu of a traditional end-of-year blog round up and graph porn, I shall leave you with my top … Continue Reading

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musing/ play

On using him

December 19, 2015 60 Comments

I get asked what my fantasies are relatively often. I think people expect to hear something relateable, something familiar, sexy, BDSM-ey, something doable.

But what I fantasise about, what I REALLY like and fantasise about, is to do what I want. To genuinely and honestly not give a shit what he wants. Whatever fucked up shit I want to do, let me do that. When someone talks about ‘using him’, mostly he doesn’t imagine it in the way I do.

And if we’re talking fantasies, I have a whole crew of men in mine whose bodies I can inhabit in … Continue Reading

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femdom dating/ meeting/ musing

Safety rules

December 18, 2015 9 Comments

Staying safe is a product of any number of things, and obviously this applies especially in the world of BDSM-related dating where it can be even easier for dangerous people to hide behind a veil of D/s type activities.

I’ve written before that newbies should do as I say, not as I do because what I SAY about safety actually makes a lot more objective sense than what I DO.

The reasons for that are many but the bottom line is that I trust my judgement. I feel like I am calling upon the gods of vengeance in saying … Continue Reading

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links

e[lust] #77

December 18, 2015 No Comments

Welcome to Elust #77 –

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #78? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

On the Island of Mhowra

Shoulder shaming?

What becomes of the broken hearted…

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

You can hear it in … Continue Reading

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audio

Audio porn: Amazed and delighted

December 12, 2015 4 Comments

Not of the kind you are expecting though, no femdommery, no actual porn.

But if you want to hear what I sound like when I’m amazed and delighted…

Listen to this:

While watching this:

** Note that there is about 18s of silence before the sound starts. **… Continue Reading

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audio/ podcast/ QnA

Reader Q&A: Femdom podcast #92 – Gifts, revealing desires, virgins, toys [Audio]

December 5, 2015 7 Comments

This Domme Chronicles femdom podcast is available on iTunes. In this one, I answer the following reader questions:

Offers of gifts: what would you do?
What qualities do you like about your regular readers?
Tasks for a sissy slut?
Should he talk to a friend of 20 years about his desires?
Have you read or seen ‘The Book of Revelation’? What did you think of it?
How important is training (of a dominant)?
Can a virgin be a dom?
Where can I get BDSM toys and outfits? (I mentioned frugaldomme.com in this answer, but should have checked it out first

Loves: 9

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top pick/ writing

I’m on Molly’s 20 of 2015!

December 4, 2015 10 Comments

Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss is a wonderful blogger and photographer who you may not be so familiar with because she’s in a M/f relationship and writes from that perspective (this is the only reason why she’s not on my blog roll: not because she isn’t fabulous, but because I specifically keep that for F/m orientated blogs).

We had a lovely chat earlier this year for her Kisscast (an audio clip where you can hear an English accent and an Australian non-accent in one interview, you know, if that were your thing *smile*) and she is just as fun … Continue Reading

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