femdom dating

I should date…

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I should… I should…

I should do all the things, all the time.

My brain punishes me with it. The things I should do.

One of the things is to write here, though I’m doing it now not to satisfy that ‘should’. I’m doing it because of all the other ‘shoulds’.

I have so many draft posts saved. 198 of them in fact. But mostly when I write here, it’s a moment in time, something on my mind. I don’t write in advance, I don’t schedule, I just sit down and bang away at the keyboard, and post it. For … Continue Reading

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Erato: I’m published in this erotica book!

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© Erato Flash Fiction, Edited by Guinevere Chase, Alex Freeman, and T.C. Mill Amazon | Other stores

Erato is a newly-released erotica book: An anthology of 50 flash fiction erotica stories, including one of mine.

ERATO was one of the nine Mousai (Muses), the goddesses of music, song and dance. In the Classical era, when the Mousai were assigned specific literary and artistic spheres, Erato was named Muse of erotic poetry and mime, and represented with a lyre. Her name means “lovely” or “beloved” from the Greek word eratos.
—Theoi Project

The book’s vision was created and executed by the folks at The New Smut Project. Why? In their own words:

“We started out of … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #135

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Welcome to Elust 135-

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #136? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Since there were only eight submissions and only two voting judges it doesn’t seem right to have a top three this month. I would like to thank … Continue Reading

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femdom relationships

Power imbalances

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Creative Commons BY 2.0 mark'Boxer' by Pete Linforth

This is about power imbalances and the controversial concept of ‘least interested’, so buckle up :).

“Do people really believe that the person that is the least interested in the relationship has the power?”

Yep. Absolutely yes. This is actually a real thing referred to in sociology, unimaginatively, as the ‘principle of least interest‘.

Power imbalances exist in relationships for any number of reasons, and I’d definitely say that the person who is the least interested has more power, whether they use it to control the relationship is a related, but slightly different question.

And I don’t think … Continue Reading

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advice/  advice for male subs

“I want to be an oral slave”

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Public domain markfrom Pxhere

Question:
Would an oral slave satisfy a domme?
I love and crave facesitting, pussy and ass worship, body worship. Would this alone satisfy a domme?

Answer:
Imagine, if you will, being on a vanilla site and asking a similar question.

“I love and crave facesitting, pussy and ass licking, body touching and licking. Would this alone satisfy a woman?”

Imagine, if you will, your sister/female friends/any actual-for-real woman you’ve ever met ever reading that, written by a random stranger, in a public forum.

Do you really, genuinely, and truly imagine that a single one of them would go ‘hell yeah, … Continue Reading

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randomness/  shit Ferns says

Shit Ferns says #17

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Random shit I’ve said, no context (if you want more of this in real time: This is pretty much ‘me on Twitter’ :)).

I was gonna tweet “How are people fucking dating rn?!”
But really I mean “How are people fucking dating anywhere ever in the history of time?!”
Dating fucking sucks
Just bring me a fully formed relationship with someone who’s happy I slap his face before I sit on it

Look, if you’ve got ’69’ in your nick, you might be just lovely, but the chance of me replying to your email just dropped to about 0 bec

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e[lust] #134

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Welcome to Elust 134-

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #135? Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Positivity is hard

How I Became a Woman

A Day of Service

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe … Continue Reading

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