I have a post brewing about this, but I thought I would stall on finishing it first ask you, trusted readers, to give me your opinion.

There are communities in Second Life dedicated to female domination. I would like to hear from you what your overall view of it is (in the broadest possible strokes!).

Hot: It’s great (for whatever reason)
Not: It’s stupid (for whatever reason)
WTF?: I have no idea what you are asking me…

BDSM in Second Life – Hot, Not or WTF?

[Survey closed]

As always, I would love to hear what you think, so comment … Continue Reading

Not only am I ‘bubbly’ (allegedly!), I was told recently by someone who read some of this blog that (are you ready…?):

…i didnt get a sense you were a Domme…

*sigh*

I am such a failure…

Did I mention this was a guy from Second Life? No…? Well, see, now you can understand why I am so concerned.

Must. Do. Better.

N made a comment on this post about how they know when a dominant is able to bring out the sub in them, and asked me some really great questions about how I know when a submissive is right for me:

Can you describe what “it” is for you? Is it the openness? The willingness to give you what you want?

I have had a post brewing about something very close to this for a while now, so I thought I would drag it out into the light.

I don’t feel dominant towards everyone, in fact I don’t feel dominant … Continue Reading

Once upon a time, a Domme logged into a kink site where she has an account and there was, as always, a boy’s profile on her screen, filtered by her criteria, they always pop up. She takes an idle look. He is funny, irreverent, not kink-focussed. It is exactly the kind of thing she likes. She smiles in amusement at his description and notes the name (for later reference, you know…).

A while later, she gets an email from him in her inbox, they do that, these local boys. She feels a little tingle of interest, it is a strange … Continue Reading