It is the middle, somewhere, between things gone before and things to come, breathless and stateless and suspended in a half-pause between want and need. Voices coloured with prickly desperation.
“Do you want me to fuck you?”
“Yes, I want you to fuck me Ma’am”
“I didn’t hear you say please.”
“Please Ma’am, please fuck me, please please please please please…”
… Continue ReadingWe go to a kinky film festival – short films, an arts centre out in the middle of nowhere. The ticket collector is a big man decked out head-to-toe in a pink frilly little girl’s outfit – from pink sequined shoes to pink ruffled bonnet. He is carrying a giant multi coloured lollipop. I love that. To my disappointment, he is the only one who has ‘dressed’ for the occasion.
I am wearing killer heels, jeans, a sparkly black top. My lips are, just for the event, a dark glossy red, an aggressive bold colour, a colour I never … Continue Reading
Yes, I am totally still milking the survey results…
Why do you read my blog?
Queer female dominant, 18-35
I like having another dominant woman’s perspective on the whole D/s thing. Usually I come across submissive women, which are interesting to read, but I learn more about myself when I read other dominant women.
I am glad, and me too!
Straight female dominant, 18-35
Because reading a blog written by an actual dominant woman makes me feel like a little bit less alone.
Oh, that’s lovely… you are not alone, we are out here. I will start a union…
Homoflexible … Continue Reading
I knew of a couple of femdom areas in SL and went there to have a look around, chat to people, see what’s what. I haven’t been in a chat room for many many years, and SL is like series of chat rooms on steroids. The basics are the same, a bunch of people in a space talking, but it is accompanied by visuals. The chat room has a graphic representation, perhaps outside in a garden, with comfy couches and chairs, and people get to present themselves not only in text, but as avatars, as their ‘best selves’, their inner … Continue Reading
My high level thoughts run crazy like this:
The results of the ‘Femdom in Second Life survey (oh goodie, a graph! You know how I love graphs!!) were surprising to me, with a pretty even spread:
I actually expected many more votes for ‘Not’ (shows what I know!). Thank you to all who participated and particularly for your comments.
For those of you who have never heard of this Second Life (SL) thing, it is a virtual world made up of themed areas and special interest groups where like minded people gather to chat, build relationships, make connections. It is used in the mainstream for education and many … Continue Reading
Not the sort of girlie stilettos you are used to seeing here… these are my kick-arse winter boots… (and yes, it *is* winter… brrrr!!)…
If you can’t see my feet, and they aren’t ‘sexy’ boots (ok, well I think they are, but I’m a little funny like that), do these photos actually have any fetish value at all? Discuss.… Continue Reading