sent emails

My sent emails XXII

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Normally, the sent email is enough to tell the story, but this is one where I have to include the emails that arrived in my inbox for context…

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5:51 PM
Hi Ferns. We chatted a while back. Still keen to serve. RealName (PlaceOfEmployment)

[I vaguely remember him, mainly because he is local and gave me his real name and employment credentials within a few emails last time. I recall patiently telling him to treat me like a normal human being and have a conversation with me, but I can’t remember any details of the previous exchange. I read the

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Another drink?

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I glance sideways at you, catch your eye. You are watching me. I know that look, it says “Here I am, Ma’am…”, it invites and challenges me, it waits.

I smirk at you, watch you blush. I know you want to look away now that you have caught my attention. Now that you have what you want you aren’t quite sure what to do with it.

I turn to face you and you hold your breath, steel yourself, shore yourself up. Oh my fucking god, so unbearably hot. It tugs at my cunt, makes my heart thump in my chest, … Continue Reading

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QnA/  survey

Survey 2011 Results part IV

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Ha! You didn’t think I was done milking sharing the survey results, did you? Now comes a million posts with the free form text answers…

Why do you read my blog?

bi-curious (i.e. straight, never tried the other thang) Male, Unsure, 46-55

you shut down a mind fuck ijnquiry thread on fetlife, that i wanted to contribute to. i think you were wrong. she asked for examples of mindfucks, and she got stomped as a porno- parasite. and i clicked on your hyper link.

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about me/  musing

A Domme’s vulnerability

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After all the talk of the amazing openness and vulnerability that I wish for from my submissive, I’ve been considering posting something that shows me at my most vulnerable. It is scary, the showing, even though it doesn’t really matter because the actual terrifying part of doing it is already done, is over.

I rarely take emotional risks, and when I do, they are quiet risks, whispered into someone’s ear, tentatively put on the table for the taking, and this was a quiet risk also. It is the sharing that makes it noisy and loud; that gives me pause, though … Continue Reading

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advice/  advice for Dommes/  musing

Real Dommes don’t…

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I am recycling my own words for this post. I do that you know, because I am lazy (if you had read my ‘About Me‘ secret confessions, you would know this already…).

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Stabbity wrote a great post here about how ‘real Dommes don’t have sex’, which prompted me to comment thusly:

You kind of touched on this, but didn’t QUITE hit it in the heart. Some Dommes fear losing control when they come, because, you know, Dommes must always be in complete control, cold, steely eyed, blah blah etc.

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Hey, Sydney University… here it is, come get it!

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I recently posted search terms that led people to my blog.

I didn’t mention that “Fetlife Sydney University” or some iteration of it was there a few times. I didn’t mention it because, well, it’s not funny, but I thought I would provide a community service announcement about it, to help those people out, so here it is.

Many people put some version of the following text on their Fetlife profiles:

WARNING: Sydney University – You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future.

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Google-fu failures

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The following are my favourites of the recent searches that brought people to my blog:

  • why are there a lot of femdom sites and no maledom [this one made me laugh because I imagine the searcher getting here and going ‘oh, for fuck’s sake, not ANOTHER one!?!!’]
  • bdsm flesh hooks buy
  • cock masturbate cum resist throb unnghh
  • casual happy femdom
  • gentle domme matronly
  • spanking pyjama
  • soap making bdsm what is
  • ridiculous femdom look
  • porn video “my cunt up close”
  • naked sweaty female slaves free videos
  • men in kilts fucking
  • is jared leto a domme
  • hey big dick
  • why are most
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