beautiful submissive men/  pretty thing

Pretty thing

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The first photo I saw of you was innocently posted in public. A casually posed shot, careless, a little blurry with movement, shirtless, showing an obviously lean body, no detail, a shock of dark hair.

My comment on it was understated, controlled, it was, after all, a photo of some boy I didn’t know and I am rarely moved by them, though I can appreciate beauty in many forms.

“…and thank you muchly for the eye candy you have already provided in your profile photo. You are a very pretty boy indeed.”

Fast forward several months: now I know you. … Continue Reading

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lesbian/  musing/  play/  random memories

Random memories: First love

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It was scorching hot, summer at the beach in the days when being tanned was the thing and gladly-offered sacrifices to get there included baby oil and sweat dripping from everywhere.

She’d walked out of the surf topless earlier in the day, I had watched her striding towards me up the beach.

I felt, for the first time that I can recall, unbridled lust as she came towards me. A punch in the stomach so strong that had I not already been lying down, I would have doubled over with the power of it. If I had been able to … Continue Reading

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e[lust] #39

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Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #40? Start with the newly updated rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

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Never Pinch a Sadist: 50 Shades of Plaid – If you don’t know kink, don’t feel pressured into it. If you wonder what it is about, join Fetlife … Continue Reading

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advice/  advice for Dommes

How to be demanding

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I’m going to try really hard not to get all ranty-mcranty here, but I can’t promise anything.

I’m only going to tackle one tiny piece of this because this is a slice of the ‘not dominant enough’ pie, which is as big as the entire world, it seems.

New dominant women exploring D/s relationships often struggle with ‘demanding things’ from their submissive. They don’t know how to do it, and it often makes them feel bad. There are really two main reasons for this:

1. They feel selfish and this makes them feel guilty and
2. There is an assumption … Continue Reading

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musing/  pretty thing

How to get a Domme to shut up…

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Context:
[Snippet of an IM conversation with a lovely flirty boy who lives nowhere near me… I am sensibly and tediously talking about the difference between remote connection and real life…]

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Him: You wouldn’t like to know what I feel like?

Me: You forget that I have experience with this… of meeting someone and ‘it’ was just not there, though remotely it very much seemed like it was. Chemistry is indefinable, so my point is that everything up to meeting is imagination and wishful thinking. And that shit is powerful, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it will translate.
So … Continue Reading

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beautiful submissive men/  QnA

Male submissive’s sexual power

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I answered a three part question on Fetlife about the sexual power of male submissives.

Does he have any sexual power? Should he?

Oh fuck yes!

Is what he has granted to him by his dominant?

[WTF?!] No, he has it because that’s part of who he is, and he brings it to me, all the smouldering, passionate, scorching-hot, barely-contained sexual power. He has it whether I ever met him or not.

Some of the incredibly and impossibly sweet ones seem to be completely unaware that they have it. I adore that also, that wide eyed naivety. I love seeing … Continue Reading

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play/  pretty thing

Yogacam

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The agreement is clearly laid out:

  • He will get on cam and do half an hour of yoga.
  • He will do it shirtless.
  • We will not speak beforehand.
  • I will initiate the call at the agreed time.
  • He will turn the webcam on, I will verify by IM that I can see, and he will begin.
  • He is to pretend I am not watching. No mugging for the cam, no sly smiles, no showing off.

He has never been on cam for me, though I have seen him already in photos and video clips that he has sent me over … Continue Reading

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