The survey is now closed…

Thank you so much to everyone who took the time to respond… much fun!!!

I am rubbing my hands together with glee over the impending graph porn.

I will be closing the oft-pimped survey tomorrow, so if you want to give me a piece of your mind (the pink bits please, not the grey wrinkly bits…), then have at it… go on, you know you want to!!

Then, soon after that, there will be graph porn and other goodies!! Wheee!!!

This time last year, I did a survey, then I shamelessly milked carefully analysed the results for graph porn and blog posts for as long as possible.

It was absolutely fascinating to find out who was out there quietly reading without a peep *wave*, so I have put on my best survey hat (it is a summery number, with a wide floppy brim and a cheeky tilt) and would absolutely love to hear from you.

There are only eight questions, it won’t take long… I will leave the survey open until we are all bored to death with … Continue Reading

More from the survey results…… Really… I’m not close to done yet!

Why do you read my blog?

Straight female dominant, 36-45

much in common. And – you write beautifully.

Oh, you are me!!! And thank you for the compliment.

Queer Genderqueer. I present, and live, as female, though I also identify as a butch gay man. dominant, 18-35

I like reading the stories and experiences of other dominant women.

I’m glad you can relate. I don’t identify as a gay man, but I have often thought that I would love to play as a gay male dominant. Me, … Continue Reading

Yes, I am totally still milking the survey results…

Why do you read my blog?

Queer female dominant, 18-35

I like having another dominant woman’s perspective on the whole D/s thing. Usually I come across submissive women, which are interesting to read, but I learn more about myself when I read other dominant women.

I am glad, and me too!

Straight female dominant, 18-35

Because reading a blog written by an actual dominant woman makes me feel like a little bit less alone.

Oh, that’s lovely… you are not alone, we are out here. I will start a union…

Homoflexible … Continue Reading

More comments from the survey… If you think I might be close to the end, I’m not! I just hope my roman numerology can keep up…

Why do you read my blog?

Straight male submissive, 36-45

I love wit. Our world is bland and literal. You make me think and laugh with your wit. Plus the intensity, I can hear the panting (you rarely hear that), but it’s hard to tell whether it was you or the boy panting.

Thinking and laughing… two of my favourite things. And I love this: “…I can hear the panting…but it’s hard to tell … Continue Reading

More comments from the survey…

Why do you read my blog?

Straight male submissive, 18-35

well, the subject matter is interesting of course, but mostly i am impressed with your honesty and writing ability. there is something so great about writing that comes from passion, it has a beauty to it that can’t be faked. so, i read it as a submissive and i read it as a lover of good prose.

*smile* Thank you… the ‘writing from passion’ is both a blessing and a curse. I can’t write if I don’t feel it, and that severely limits what I … Continue Reading

Why do you read my blog?

Heteroflexible male submissive, 36-45

Just in case my favourest kink of all were ever to come up. And also: because you make D/s feel not just hot, but poetically hot.

Now, I *know* what your favourite kink is, my dear friend (I am magic like that… ) and the likelihood that it is going to come up in a post is … errrmm… about 50-50. And thank you for ‘poetically hot’ – I love that!

Heteroflexible male submissive, 18-35

I enjoy getting all kinds of perspectives on kink, and your perspectives are particularly well