I posted some impressions of our kissing date.

They are truth, those small snippets of heat and connection. Some sweet emails followed, his first immediately after our kissing date full of wonder and awe that matched mine.

But despite the flashes of intensity we shared, overall something wasn’t firing with us.

He is a smart, attractive man who was showing me lovely little glimpses of potential goodness both as a person and as a submissive. We got along well, had things in common, found each other attractive, he was beautifully compliant, but we didn’t really have that simmering chemistry: … Continue Reading

I know you want to hear all about my date, but I’m not ready to talk about that until I have more solid ground to stand on. Suffice it to say he’s really cute, smart and interesting, and he has a lot of other stellar qualities besides: I like him.

There might have been a little kissing… Yum…

Anyway where was I?

Oh yeah, and he brought me Milo: what’s not to like?

We’re figuring out if there’s a ‘what next’, and if so, what that might entail.

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On top of that, I have another date tomorrow. Drew, … Continue Reading

I have a date.

Shocker, right?

Lunch.

With this lovely submissive man who I’ve dubbed the Pilot (because he is, among other things, a pilot).

I don’t normally write about potential submissives here because I think it puts too much pressure on, well, everything.

In fact I normally don’t mention anyone here until they feel tangible, until I know I like them, until we have had a couple of months of promising contact at least.

But hell, I haven’t had a date since forever.

We exchanged quite a few emails four years ago. I actually really liked him then: he … Continue Reading