I posted my personal ad a while ago.
I’m dying to write about what’s going on in excruciating detail. Itchy fingers!!
But I can’t. Not yet. Ha!
Stupid not-really-anonymous blog.
I WILL say, though, that Collarme.com actually worked okay. By that I mean that the number and quality of respondents that I got there was unexpectedly high. Of course that doesn’t mean they were a match for me, but they certainly weren’t inarticulate one-handed typists spewing idiocy at me. Most had read my profile, were polite and respectful, and I had a relatively pleasant exchange with most of them.
I ended up getting a few more responses from blog-readers after I whined about it, and unsurprisingly (because my readers are awesome!), those who did send me a note were really smart, lovely, sweet, articulate submissive men *swoon*.
I can say that putting the ad on my blog, even with only a tiny number of respondents, was well worth doing *smile*.
I can also say that true-to-form, geography is a bitch always and forever. Grrrr…
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i can’t wait until you write about it in excruciating detail mistress …
Me either *smile*. I just hope I have some interesting excruciating details to tell!
Ferns
I agree. That darn geography gets tricky. When is the scifi technology going to arrive? I need my transporter now! I’m glad it seems to have panned out for you though. I have also had some decent luck with collarme. I’ve met several nice and polite submissive men on there. I’m not exactly sure why it has a worse reputation than any other kinky dating site.
“When is the scifi technology going to arrive? I need my transporter now!”
Inorite?!!
“I have also had some decent luck with collarme. I’ve met several nice and polite submissive men on there.”
I’m glad to hear that you did.
I suspect my age puts me outside of the search criteria for a lot of the silliness, but I also think that when you first join, you get ‘fresh meat’ emails and for women, that can be a bloodbath of idiocy.
Ferns
Ohhhhh this good news makes me so happy for you!! I am bursting with excitement. You know if you want to burst with excitement over it with anyone I am only an email away of course. *crosses fingers and toes for you*
Geography is a huge bitch! However, if it is to work out then I have a feeling you and him (whoever he is at that time) will figure it out together. I mean if he’s a smart man he will figure it out anyways because who doesn’t want a hot FemDomme with a rocking body and a sexy Australian accent?!!! *winks*
Respectfully,
mysticlez
*laugh* Thanks.
Nothing too exciting just yet, but possibilities are better than no possibilities…
Ferns
“I can also say that true-to-form, geography is a bitch always and forever. Grrrr…”
I just wanted to give you hope here :-)
I am living proof that IT IS possible to have a fulfilling relationship even when the man lives 10 000 km away. My man and I are doing it for 3 years know. It is not easy but it is worth it. Once you find the right guy, keep him :-)
Oh, that’s so great to hear, I’m really glad you are making it work!! Congratulations to you both!
For me, I’m willing to build a relationship with someone who doesn’t live near me, but if we decide it’s worthwhile, we will plan to co-locate in the not-too-distant future. I know some people can make it work, but a long term LDR is not something I’m interested in.
Ferns
I hope someone will be in an excruciating state soon! You have been a wee bit more quiet about this one but very understandable. I hope the possibilities pan out. Now… you post this… then your first lesbian love post… hmmmm is there a twist in the plot ahead??
I hope you are waking each day with a bit of that ‘zing’ buzzing in your head, or in your stride, or wherever it resonates!
I had hoped so too, but alas, it is looking less and less likely *sad face*.
Ferns