Once upon a time, in a land far far away, my girlfriend and I were play partners with a male dominant. My limits were no kissing, no sex, no oral. He was allowed to touch me, but I wasn’t interested in touching him.
My girlfriend had no such limits, and was astride him when I walked into the bedroom we were all sharing.
He beckoned me onto the bed.
I said, “No thanks.”
He tried to convince me. I can’t even remember what he said, but I remember thinking “What a patronising bunch of bullshit”.
I said, “No thanks.”
He … Continue Reading