Étienne is the most lovely man. I always think of him as a calm and zen-like presence who brings thought, experience and gentle reason to many discussions both here on my blog and on Fetlife. I am delighted that he chose to share his story. Thank you, Étienne.

Author: Étienne

I was just getting out of a horrible, abusive relationship with an unbalanced dominant woman. A year of therapy had taught me a lot about myself and really helped me turn a corner. I was spending the Christmas holiday in South Carolina, alone.

While I’d been kinky all my life, … Continue Reading

Contrary to Tom’s spurious claims, he fits in here nicely (‘here’ being not only ‘in the world’ in a general sense, but ‘here’ in the ‘happy femdom stories’ sense and most assuredly ‘here’ in the ‘I have loved your blog for a long time, Tom, and am always delighted to read your thoughts even though you are a cheeky buggar who somehow thinks that virtually refusing to be my designated driver means something, and we’ll just see about that when Mrs Edge and I feel like having a few drinks, shall we?’ sense…).

Thank you, Tom, for sharing your wonderful … Continue Reading

Shhhh… An anonymous contributor snuck in with this most wonderful story. Thank you, dear anonymous!

Author: Anonymous

When I was 24 I met a very cute and shy little man. A gentle soul who was willing to talk about whatever I wanted and listened to whatever I said. I was a confirmed lesbian at the time, and in a relationship, so, of course I was only interested in friendship with him. He didn’t seem to mind. When I questioned him about his life, he told me whatever I wanted to know, even if it was difficult to talk about. Through … Continue Reading

This lovely story arrived in my inbox from Dani all quiet-like and sweet… thank you so much!

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Author: Dani

This story starts about 3 years ago. I had just left an abusive relationship, and had moved to a new city. I had a few friends there, but still felt alone. After dating a bit, I decided on a whim to put up an ad on craigslist (I would not reccommend this to anyone – there’s a reason dating sites exist, after all).

My email blew up with responses. Mind you, it was a vanilla ad for companionship. I had … Continue Reading

This wonderful story arrived in my inbox with little preamble. Durga said she and her darling (I love how she refers to him!) keep a low profile for professional reasons, so she doesn’t get to tell her story often… I am delighted that she chose to share it here. Welcome to her self described ‘kinky love story’.

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Author: Durga

After I “came out” in 2007, I had dated several men off of Alt.com and one from FetLife, but hadn’t had the best of luck. About two years ago, a friend forwarded me an exquisitely-written ad from – of all … Continue Reading

You didn’t think we were done with the happy stories did you? Oh hell no!!

Maggie has generously shared her truly lovely story, thank you for it! *happy sigh*

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Author: Maggie

It was a social site. I was a not so innocent, kinky vanilla gal. One year post divorce and no interest in anything more then a bit of frivolity and fun. He sent a witty message, focusing on my openness and sense of adventure. I was intrigued. A lot of interesting conversations as we tipped toed around the real truth. But little bits still managed to slipped out. … Continue Reading

I was so delighted to get this story from the lovely Faith that I might have squeeeed (twice!), but I admit nothing.

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Author: Faith

Gosh, where to start? I will have to include a little background. I had been talking to a different sub for, oh, mebbe a week and then came the great picture exchange. I received his pic and he looked like a nice guy except for the hair. Now, I consider myself to be a open minded, but I have my limits and I’m well aware that I live in the Bible-belt. His hair was in … Continue Reading