D/s break ups

November 23, 2014 5 Comments

[SubmissiveGuyComics is also doing a post for our NaBloWriMo project, though he’s hiding some of them on Twitter so if you aren’t following him, you should… ]

“How should Masters/Dominants try and help their submissive/slave move forward? What, according to the Dominant are they owed? What do THEY owe their submissive’s in turn? What kind of post-relationship aftercare is provided due to the intensity of D/s relationships in comparison to vanilla ones?”

My D/s relationships are monogamous, romantic, love-based partnerships. When they end, we are both a mess, and at its best, we both try and be … Continue Reading

Loves: 6

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femdom fiction/ femdom relationships/ NaNoWriMo

Oh baby

November 22, 2014 2 Comments

[SubmissiveGuyComics is also doing a post for our NaBloWriMo project, though he’s hiding some of them on Twitter so if you aren’t following him, you should… ]

“Oh baby,” she whispered.

He opened his eyes slowly, lazy eyelashes fluttering as if they were weighted, as if it took all of his strength to manoeuvre them open. He managed a moment’s connection, catching her gaze briefly before they closed again.

“Hmmm?” It wasn’t a question, not really.

“Oh… baby,” she whispered again, her breath hot against his ear, all the desperate need for him floating in the air, … Continue Reading

Loves: 11

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musing/ NaNoWriMo

Observation

November 21, 2014 8 Comments

[SubmissiveGuyComics is also doing a post for our NaBloWriMo project, though he’s hiding some of them on Twitter so if you aren’t following him, you should… ]

There is a lot to be said for being able to see how potential partners interact with others.

I have met pretty much all of my submissives online, so before we meet, the most I can see of them beyond our private interaction is how they communicate with others on social media, and wow, is it telling.

In isolation, they get to be whoever they want, their best selves, the … Continue Reading

Loves: 5

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NaNoWriMo/ randomness

South African actor outs herself as a Domme

November 20, 2014 11 Comments

[SubmissiveGuyComics is also doing a post for our NaBloWriMo project, though he’s hiding some of them on Twitter so if you aren’t following him, you should… ]

Paltego over at Femdom Resource often links to interesting articles, this one more interesting to me than most.

On 18th November, Yvonne van den Bergh outed herself as a Domme to avoid being outed by a stalker. I was baffled by the whole thing at first when I went looking around for how it was playing out, but when I realised that she’s a pro Domme, it started to make … Continue Reading

Loves: 4

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NaNoWriMo/ play/ vanilla

Sharing fantasies

November 19, 2014 9 Comments

[SubmissiveGuyComics is also doing a post for our NaBloWriMo project, though he’s hiding some of them on Twitter so if you aren’t following him, you should… ]

“We should write each other our hottest fantasy,” I said, triumphant at my brilliant idea.

I was in my mid-20s, in a wonderful relationship with a vanilla man who I loved madly. In hindsight, I have identified him as a vanilla submissive: the first man I found who could give me what I wanted in a relationship, the first man I ever fell in love with, the man to … Continue Reading

Loves: 7

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Domme Chronicles book/ musing/ NaNoWriMo

The role of erotica

November 18, 2014 2 Comments

[SubmissiveGuyComics is also doing a post for our NaBloWriMo project, though he’s hiding some of them on Twitter so if you aren’t following him, you should… ]

Earlier I tweeted this:

This morning I received the most heartwarming email from a lovely woman who credits my book for having had a positive influence on her 20+ year relationship with her husband. I was moved almost to tears by her words. I felt both proud and incredibly humbled.

They were exploring a femdom dynamic, and she was enjoying it well enough, but while it was fun for … Continue Reading

Loves: 11

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NaNoWriMo/ play

Wrangling your bald/short haired submissive

November 17, 2014 14 Comments

[Beautiful creativity by the super talented Submissive Guy Comics for our NaBloWriMo project].

When you have a submissive who doesn’t have hair long enough to grab and use to shove him around, you may have to get a bit more creative *smile*.

More ideas for shoving him around:

A thumb or fingers in his mouth, hook around his lower teeth, grab around his jaw with the rest (no, he would NEVER bite!).
Cup his chin, force his head back, squeeze his cheeks.
From the front, hand around his neck right under his jaw, apply a little pressure

Loves: 11

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