You didn’t think we were done with the happy stories did you? Oh hell no!!
Maggie has generously shared her truly lovely story, thank you for it! *happy sigh*
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Author: Maggie
It was a social site. I was a not so innocent, kinky vanilla gal. One year post divorce and no interest in anything more then a bit of frivolity and fun. He sent a witty message, focusing on my openness and sense of adventure. I was intrigued. A lot of interesting conversations as we tipped toed around the real truth. But little bits still managed to slipped out. We began comparing high level notes. I was a swinger and not interested in monogamy or even marriage. He was into BDSM and had been from a young age. The virtual chemistry flowing, my mind completely intrigued as to what kind of man he really was… it was finally time to meet. The first date was an impromptu, and then all the delays. It’s almost hilarious now to think he was late, like several hours late, for our first date. But he did call each time it slid.
Drinks went well. Drinks went extremely well. Just something about him… his confidence, his boldness. Though I think now it was his face. Sexy yes, but it was more the animation that played every emotion across his. Like reading his thoughts like a book. I couldn’t stand it anymore, I just had to have him. Drinks paid and out the door. An invite back to my place. A kiss on the back porch that curled my toes and a night that I’ll never forget. Or so I thought at the moment. Little did I know how much more was to come.
The first month moved slowly, with a lot of push and pull from us both, trying to deny what was happening. Then it seems like it all just steamed rolled. The secrets rapidly spilled. The experimentation began. The doors flew open and down I fell, dragging his sweet little ass with me. There was no negotiations, no limits laid out, simply a sincere offer to give me the reigns. I solemnly accepted, though I made no promises of where we would go, only to be up front and honest. His goofy little grin said it all. So I pounced him, pinned him down and had my way with him to seal the deal!
A year and a half later, the households are now blended though the explorations continue. I’ve been on the most amazing journey of my life and feel so blessed to have found a man who can take all I have to dish out and keeps begging for more. I still cannot fathom where we may end up with all of this (I know… how unDommely of me), but our adventurous souls could care less as we sit back and just enjoy the ride.
On a side note:
I remember when he first told me about his submissive nature. My usual self dove into researching everything I could find on Female Domination and I found myself so disappointed reading line after line about how the only way to control a man was by locking him up and denying him. I can even recall telling him that I wasn’t sure I could do this, it was too far against my nature and went against so much that I knew about myself. Then I stumbled across your blog and just reading a few entries, it all just clicked. Everything he had been trying to tell me finally made sense. I devoured the entire blog archives in one weekend and the ideas and plans started to form. It’s been all downhill ever since! LOL
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This post is part of a project to share happy, positive femdom relationship stories. If you have a story and are willing to share it, please email it to me (ferns at domme-chronicles dot com).
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I love stories like these, they make me feel that occasionally everything WILL go right in the world, eventually.
Thanks for sharing and thanks for this project Ferns.
J
Ferns, changing the world one Domme at a time…
Sweet, wonderful, sexy story of real happiness. Thanks so much for sharing your story!
“You didn't think we were done with the happy stories did you? Oh hell no!!”
Hey, keep 'em coming! As the lady said, there's a lot of people out there saying the only way to do something is “fill-in-the-blank”.
Have you noticed that the happy stories all involve doing things a little bit differently? There's a moral there somewhere.
Keep 'em coming. :o)
Jake: “I love stories like these, they make me feel that occasionally everything WILL go right in the world, eventually.”
Me too, I am loving them!
Ferns
MercuryKitty666: “Ferns, changing the world one Domme at a time…”
*laugh* My ultimate goal is universal Dommely happiness!! And world domination, of course!
Seriously, I am beyond delighted when I hear from new Dommes who stumble upon my blog and go 'Oh, thank god!!!' because it is the antithesis to the stereotypes that are (still) *everywhere*. One day, they will stumble upon it and go 'Yeah, whatever… it's typical femdommery… duh', and that will be even *more* awesome!
Ferns
Your blog is a public service, you should be compensated!!
Ah another fabulous story. Now I wish I had checked earlier with my coffee… now later with wine, I'm just missing the beast.
Congratulations on your downhill tumble Maggie! Thank you for sharing!
Awww.. Now I feel so special!! I'm in Fern's blog!
“it is the antithesis to the stereotypes that are (still) *everywhere*.”
It really is, and I was thankful to find it. I honestly think I wouldn't have made it this long trying the FLR thing. All the denial, sissification, and humiliation were just depressing and I couldn't fathom even wanting to do that. Femdom comes across as so anti-sex it's completely nuts.
But this blog was full of such hot and steamy stories, that all sounded like fun. As silly as it sounds, it was like being given the green light to do this all MY way. Like a damn bursting on my imagination, I took off like a race horse and the fun has been never ending. Now I find it hard to imagine life being lived any other way.
Now if I can just find the magic wand to balance out the rest of reality with my imagination! LOL
But again.. thanks Fern for being you and letting us all take glimpses at your life and what Femdom *should* be all about.
Sweets: “Your blog is a public service, you should be compensated!!”
Damn right! I'm applying for public moneys right bloody now!
Ferns
Maggie: “Awww.. Now I feel so special!! I'm in Fern's blog!”
You ARE special, thank you so much for sharing!!
“But this blog was full of such hot and steamy stories, that all sounded like fun. As silly as it sounds, it was like being given the green light to do this all MY way. Like a damn bursting on my imagination, I took off like a race horse and the fun has been never ending.”
I LOVE hearing that, and it doesn't sound silly at all! I think we underestimate the impact that the stereotypes have, even as we rail against the idiocy of them. If you only ever see one depiction of something you don't know so much about, you struggle to envision anything else, and in this domain, I find that experience to be profoundly depressing. I'm so entirely happy that my blog helped you burst the dam!!
Ferns