play/  the other men

Strip, boy

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As soon as the door closes behind us, I am on you.

I shove you back against the wall, grab a fistful of your hair, jerk your head back, then sideways. Your eyes widen, you try not to resist. Your head smashes against the wood as I push myself up against you, my mouth on yours. I open my mouth, forcing your lips apart, I suck your breath, your arms automatically go around my waist as you pull me harder against you and seek out my tongue with yours, you strain forward against my grip in your hair to get … Continue Reading

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QnA/  survey

Survey: Results part V

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More comments from the survey… If you think I might be close to the end, I’m not! I just hope my roman numerology can keep up…

Why do you read my blog?

Straight male submissive, 36-45

I love wit. Our world is bland and literal. You make me think and laugh with your wit. Plus the intensity, I can hear the panting (you rarely hear that), but it’s hard to tell whether it was you or the boy panting.

Thinking and laughing… two of my favourite things. And I love this: “…I can hear the panting…but it’s hard to tell … Continue Reading

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musing

Mad skillz

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I’m sure that quite a few of you have the impression that I am full of the mad dommely skillz.

I’m not.

Technically speaking, I am really rubbish.

You know why?

I don’t care. Seriously.

If I hit a boy with stuff, or bite him, or scratch him, or fuck him, or otherwise play with him, I don’t care if I am elegant, if the strikes are beautiful or if I look fabulous doing it. I can’t do a Florentine flogging (I *so* can’t, and in fact, I am impressed with myself that I even know the term!!), I can’t … Continue Reading

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musing

Little boy

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I need a man who can let me access the little boy inside. There is something terribly appealing, something precious about that wide-eyed inner child.

It has nothing to do with age play or infantilism, it has nothing to do with being maternal or a mommy figure.

It has to do with innocence and imagination and a sense of wonder. There is a quality in the men I like where they can open up and offer trust to a level that grown ups have forgotten, they do it in a way that makes you imagine that they have never really … Continue Reading

Loves: 3
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QnA/  survey

Survey: Results part IV

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More comments from the survey…

Why do you read my blog?

Straight male submissive, 18-35

well, the subject matter is interesting of course, but mostly i am impressed with your honesty and writing ability. there is something so great about writing that comes from passion, it has a beauty to it that can’t be faked. so, i read it as a submissive and i read it as a lover of good prose.

*smile* Thank you… the ‘writing from passion’ is both a blessing and a curse. I can’t write if I don’t feel it, and that severely limits what I … Continue Reading

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my boy

No looking back

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“I’m not going to look back, ok?”

I pull him a little closer, leaning into him, “Ok baby.”

“I can’t.”

I nod, “It’s ok, I understand.”

More kissing, a desperate clinging, touching, petting, a terrible reluctance.

“Who do you belong to, baby?”

“I belong to you, Ma’am,” he whispers in my ear.

I nod again, kisses, an inhalation of final tenderness, and underneath a yawning emptiness, a rising bitterness in my mouth already.

I finally pull away, “Bye beautiful. I miss you.”

“I miss you too… bye Ma’am.”

We part and I watch him walk away.

I wait.

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advice/  advice for Dommes/  advice for male subs/  musing

‘Topping from the bottom’ is bollocks!

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‘Topping from the bottom’ (TFTB – yes, truly, I am that much of an acronym geek!) is a term used to describe a situation where a submissive attempts to control the play, the dynamic or the relationship from their submissive position.

It’s a common phrase that has been, and continues to be, abused by all and sundry. It has essentially become a term to cover anything and everything that falls under the umbrella of ‘the submissive is doin’ it wrong’. It is even used to describe a submissive’s behaviour when the Domme and sub aren’t even in a relationship yet!… Continue Reading

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