Fantastic gem

HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING

A fantastic gem that manages to be practical as the dickens AND a quick, fun, sexy read.

Even players with some experience will probably find several useful ideas. I’ve bought three of Ferns’s books and have always been be very happy! … Continue Reading

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Highly recommend

HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING

I’m always on the lookout for more advice that may help me along further. While some aspects of this book weren’t totally new to me, other things were mentioned that I hadn’t thought about before and they were great.

I wish I’d found this a year ago when I was really getting started. I highly recommend it.… Continue Reading

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Accessible, encouraging

HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING

This book is a playbook for making a novice’s first scene amazing. If someone sent you to purchase this book because you are new to being in charge of a scene, they sent you to the right place.

Accessible, encouraging, simple, concise, while not preaching any particular “twue way.” This book distills 20 years of oft-shared pieces of advice into a useful format.… Continue Reading

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It went great

HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING

I received it just two days before I was going to dominate a big man of 6’2 whom until then has been my dom. I read the book and did all the things you suggested. Today we did it! And it went great and I felt amazing. I kept it short just to give him a taste of this and that and I didn’t change my own character either.… Continue Reading

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Can’t recommend highly enough

HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING

This is such a good book on how to plan a great BDSM scene.

All content, no fluff. This book gets straight to the point and takes you step by step into making a plan that you can actually use to create an amazing first scene to blow your sub’s mind, and give you the satisfaction that comes from experiencing it all coming together.

I can’t recommend this book highly enough.… Continue Reading

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Got me through

HOW TO MAKE YOUR FIRST BDSM SCENE AMAZING

Fern’s advice literally got me through my first few playtimes by helping me be organized, confident and adjusting my expectations. … Continue Reading

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Remarkably effective

HOW TO HANDLE DISOBEDIENCE

This book changed the relationship I had with my wife.

It provided the impetus required to stop my shit and play the game properly. Adopting Fern’s practices proved remarkably effective.

It provides a step-by-step approach to safely break out of an uncomfortable moment in order to progress the relationship.… Continue Reading

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