My cocks

I was inspired to think about strap ons by Britni’s post. Holy hell, hot, stunning photos! It made me immediately want to get my harness and my cock, take pornographic photos of myself and then wildly fuck things. I haven’t written much (if anything) about fucking with a strap on cock because… well, I don’t know why… maybe it’s just too stereotypical, a little porn-ish, and I didn’t really want to go there up-front and feed that cliché.

I like having a cock, that swaggering heaviness, that obvious, out-there fuck toy, the potential to hurt or to give pleasure … Continue Reading

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Don’t care

Him: “…and anyway, I don’t care what you think…”

…pause…

We both erupt into giggles…

Him: (still laughing) “I was trying not to laugh…!!”

Me: (still laughing) “Yeah, I know…”… Continue Reading

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e[lust] #5

I’m delighted to have one of my posts chosen as one of the top three in this e[lust] edition with No more… it’s not even a sex story!  Thanks to the secret judges for the votes…

Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #6? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for … Continue Reading

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Sunday curiosity #9

Disclaimer, for regular readers…

I love that you come here and get a sense of me and my relationship, I love that you are interested at all, I love it when you comment on something that has touched you, that you sometimes share little snippets of your own lives with me, that you can relate to things that I have written, that you offer support when I need it. That is a wonderful and much appreciated benefit that I get from writing here.

I have mentioned before that I do not want to preface my posts with disclaimers, and nor … Continue Reading

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Piercing Reversal

I have agreed to it, finally, and I lie on the bed while he gets the piercing kit. I try to relax, but I am tense, scared. I hate needles, hate them…

He sits beside me on the bed, I try not to watch him get the 14 gauge needle out, try not to listen to the packet crackling as he unwraps it, try not to look at the clamps, try not to think. I turn my head while he gets sorted.

I feel a little sick, I am wondering what I am doing, why I agreed to this, it’s … Continue Reading

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Valentine’s Christmas party invitation

Yes, I really am this corny!

Images courtesy of one of my good friends, thank you.Continue Reading

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Sunday curiosity #8

I said that I wanted to change direction a little with this blog, and this is part of it, to step away from those powerful moments and talk a little about the ordinary ones, those moments that happen day in and day out, in between the beautiful and the powerful there is the ordinary, the routine. This is not my usual type of posting, though it is a moment in time, and it is an emotional reality. This Sunday curiosity is about the ‘things’ that we deal with, that we all deal with, whether we have a D/s relationship or … Continue Reading

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