Survey: Last chance…

I’ll be closing the survey tomorrow, making graphs (yes, yes, I am a complete nerd… but not nerdy enough to be a geek, which would make me much cooler!!) and figuring out how to hold that mirror up with all of the interesting information about you. Secrets!

I am delighted that so many quiet readers have ventured out from behind the keyboard to share some snippets with me (hello you!).

So… last chance… please do get in there and give me a piece of your mind (not an important piece though, I’d hate for you to forget how to walk…). … Continue Reading

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For the IT geeks…

(because no-one else will think this is funny…)

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Survey: Quick and dirty

There are some questions that you asked in my survey that are easy to answer, I like easy! If you want to out yourselves as the owners of said questions by fessing up in the comments, feel free… the confession box is open…

Ready? Here goes:

A daily cartoon strip?

*laugh* Ummmm… no, but that did make me laugh. And I have included a couple that I stole from elsewhere*, just for you!


(I look exactly like that, by the way…)

I cringe at ‘domme’ every time.

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Survey… exciting!

I am so delighted at the amazing responses to my survey so far that I wanted to post a premature ‘thank you!’.

I am enjoying the feedback immensely! Not only for the stats, which are interesting enough all on their own, but even more so for the fabulous comments that you are volunteering – they are thoughtful, insightful, funny, personal and often truly lovely. I am absolutely loving hearing from you!

And plus, I will get to put some of it into graphs, and you know, I love graphs!

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Sunday curiosity #7 – Survey

TOO LATE! THE SURVEY IS FERME/FINITO/OTHER F-WORDS
That means you don’t really exist… you realise that right?

Now everyone, I want you to sit quietly (shush you, Johnny…! Don’t think I can’t see you there in the back row!!) and pay attention…


Here is a test. Well, ok, not a test, a survey, but it looks kind of like a test except it’s really easy and there are no wrong answers, so not really like a test at all…


It’s (again) me being curious about you good folks who come here and read my blog…


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Please hurt me

He was shocked and bewildered and lost. Our play had hit something at the core of him and he looked stricken, chest heaving, face screwed up, on the edge of tears. I cradled him, rocking him gently, kissing, crooning to him.

“It’s ok baby, it’s ok,” I stroked his face.

He looked up at me, a little boy, scared and bewildered.

“Please hurt me…” he asked in a small voice, “please…?”

I understood at once that he was asking me to bring him back from it, to ground him, to give him something solid to hang onto. I wanted to … Continue Reading

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