Odaxelagnia: the paraphilia involving sexual attraction to biting or being bitten.
Biting is one of my favourites, it is impossibly intimate and can range from gently pleasant to terribly painful… yummy! I did not know there was a term for it!
Sadly the reference to odaxelagnia was removed from Wikipedia with the concern that it is a “Non-notable fetish”.
See, and people say sex blogs aren’t educational!… Continue Reading
We are on the phone. It is late. He is tired.
“Go and brush your teeth, get into bed, and I will read you a bedtime story…”
He thinks I am joking. I’m not. After a few minutes, he is still talking to me… I interrupt him.
“Teeth, bed! Go on!”
He laughs softly with surprise, “Yes Ma’am!” and scrambles off to do just that. I hear him shuffling and moving about.
Presently he returns, scooches into bed, tells me that he’s ready.
“I’m going to read you the story, then I am going to say goodnight, ok?”
“Ok… but… … Continue Reading
I dragged all of my shoes out of the depths of my wardrobes and decided to make a shoe tower. Easier access, better ability to see what I had, a lovely choice of which to wear before I go out.
But but… after I did it, there was a messy pile of shoe boxes against the wall. It offended my sense of aesthetics, it was completely unacceptable!!
So, I ordered clear shoe boxes to put them all in, to make them pretty, you know I like the pretty.
So, below is the shoe tower ‘Before and After’:
I know, I … Continue Reading
I suspect that many of you are familiar with Male Submission Art (if not, why not?!). It is a site that shows beautiful images of male submission that challenge the stereotypes.
Maymay (the founder of malesubmissionart.com) has now created a spinoff called Submissive Secrets. It is a community-based art project inspired by the PostSecret idea.
Submissive Secrets is a forum to tell the stories and share the thoughts, feelings, desires, and fears that submissive men and those who love them have in a way that offers solidarity, compassion, empathy, trust, sympathy, lust, and, of course, love.
The objective is … Continue Reading
Original Question:
What do you say or do with your subs to nurture them, make them feel loved and supported?
My Response:
Kissing, always and more. Lots of physical contact, petting, I like to wrap myself around him, all legs and arms and skin contact. I whisper “Hello, beautiful” or some such to bring him to me, it is a checking in, an acknowledgement, a calling him home. Making him look me in the eye and hold my gaze, soft smiles, sometimes a ‘good boy’. And always, more kissing.
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Bikery – The mental image of Suzy mounting this thing and pedaling herself towards a quaking orgasm flashed across my mind’s eye and I grinned into her face.
If you are monogamous … Continue Reading
