e[lust] #125

December 20, 2019 No Comments

Welcome to Elust 125–

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

For Love

Apologise

I got that Dominant Feeling

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Observing a Sex blogger or Two by Mr More
The cutie pie … Continue Reading

Loves: 1

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femdom relationships/ happy femdom story

Happy femdom story: DoubleGemini

December 18, 2019 12 Comments

'Love Heart Made With Hands At Sunset' by Ed Gregory

This happy femdom story is one that may seem rather familiar because it sounds very much like a typical vanilla love story, except that she’s in charge, and there’s a healthy dose of kink, and here we are :).

Enjoy this loveliness.

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Author: DoubleGemini

The long road to happiness

My femdom journey started all wrong but, I suspect, from a likely common origin. See I knew from my very early years I was dominant, that I wanted a D/s relationship, and that I was into sadism. My disconnect came from thinking everyone was like me and that just wasn’t … Continue Reading

Loves: 6

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audio/ interview

An(other) Ferns interview [audio]

December 16, 2019 6 Comments

Earlier this year, I had the privilege of doing a second interview with amazing Molly from Molly’s Daily Kiss for her podcast cutely named Kisscast.

I had my first chat with her way back in 2015, and we had a blast, so I was delighted to have the opportunity to catch up again.

We covered a lot of topics:

Why I started blogging
How my dominance started
Discovering BDSM
Feeling D/s as love and romance
Service subs as the unicorns of D/s
On newbies and learning
Dating (ugh!)
The story of Pissy Pants Pete and how that’s relevant

Loves: 6

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books/ How To Femdom Series

How To Handle Disobedience: Book launch special!

December 10, 2019 6 Comments

Aaaahhh, my fourth ‘How To’ femdom guide is out, it’s out!!

— How To Handle Disobedience, for dominant women —

For the first 24 hours post-launch it’s half price on Amazon!

As with my other guides, I’ve honed in on a problem that I see new dominants striking all the time. Some version of the following:
“My submissive won’t do what I say! What do I do?”
“What to do when my submissive says no?”
“What do I do if my submissive disobeys?”
“How do I stop my submissive when they’re being a brat?”

It doesn’t matter whether your submissive … Continue Reading

Loves: 8

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advice/ advice for Dommes/ books/ How To Femdom Series

How to handle disobedience

December 7, 2019 6 Comments

My new book (coming out soon!), How To Handle Disobedience, is for new dominant women who struggle with obedience in their femdom dynamic. It’s a deeper dive into the approach I outlined in this post, “What to do when your submissive says ‘no’” (one of my most popular posts).

I’ve been around for a long time, and one of the reasons I started my ‘How To’ Femdom Series was to give down-to-earth practical help to newbies, both dominant women and submissive men.

Rather than giving some high level ‘whole of dynamic’ advice, I honed in on issues … Continue Reading

Loves: 16

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sent emails

My sent emails LIV

November 22, 2019 6 Comments

Adapted from 'Untitled' by Hypnoart

Hello 20yo-stranger,

“Would it be too much to ask to have a chat with you on kik?”

Yes, it would, I only get into private chats with friends.

“I love…[blah blah]… Makes me hard thinking about it.”

And I only give my details to friends because of this. Seriously, this would interest me why?

If you have actually read my blog as you say, I’m pretty damn sure that there is not a single place in it where I have stated, or implied, or even vaguely hinted that the state of some stranger’s hardon is of the slightest interest to … Continue Reading

Loves: 9

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links

e[lust] #124

November 22, 2019 No Comments

Welcome to Elust 124–

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back December1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!