More birthday shoes!!
These fabulous nude patent leather heels were a gift from a lovely submissive man who convinced me with his polite insistence that I really *must* have them (thank you!).
Unfortunately, they are just a tad too small, so I am going to have to return them *sad face*.
Still, not sharing would just be selfish, right? So here they are.
Dear world,
It’s my birthday.
In honour of this momentous occasion, and as tradition dictates, I am sharing yet another photo of me where the majority of the pixels are bare skin*. See me glorying in your cancerous sunlight yet again!
Please send presents.
Sincerely, Ferns
Hit the ‘Likes’ star. Yes that one just down there. It’s my birthday, so you have to do what I say.
Also leave a sweet comment. Go on!
Did I mention that it’s my birthday?
* Since I get asked this every time I post one of these photos: Yes, of course that’s … Continue Reading
The gym is not busy, mid morning. The session is fine. Nothing special. Drop sets. Chest, back, arms. I’m lifting heavier than I have before. This makes me happy.
I work hard enough to get kitten arms, where everything trembles, right down to the tips of my fingers which shake when I enter stats into the app I use.
I finish and feel a build up of energy as I get water, mix up a protein shake. It’s a feeling that I get rarely from workouts, but I recognise it.
I crackle with energy, it fills the spaces inside me, … Continue Reading
Given that some people have lost or moved their blogs due to actions taken by Blogger or WordPress.com, I thought I’d do a post purely to pimp out BDSM blogs.
I’m not just pimping those who have changed address, I am das über pimp: If you have a BDSM-related blog, I’m happy to give you a shout-out with my big furry hat and purple velvet jacket on.
Mystic’s Mind Fuck by Mysticlez
Submissive in Seattle by Peroxide
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An Open Letter to Modern Female Feminists
Innocent … Continue Reading
I think in a lot of ways, I was much more domlydomdomdomlydominant when I was young, and vanilla. In the days before I’d even heard of BDSM.
You know why?
I never gave it a moment’s thought.
I didn’t negotiate.
I didn’t discuss.
I just did my thing and the men who were interested in me either got with the program or they were left behind. I never thought in terms of ‘dominance’ or ‘power’ or ‘authority’ or anything like that. It was irrelevant. I was just me. It was so simple.
Men loved it. Seriously.
I don’t at all … Continue Reading
Sometimes submissives ask how they can help their dominant (especially their *new* dominant) become more comfortable in her dominance.
Come here, and I will let you in on a secret…
Ssshhhh…
Ready?
Here it is:
Seriously. Do that.
I know it sounds as if I am being cute or something, but I’m not.
Do you want to know what I probably needed most from my submissive when I was finding my feet?
