As a proper-for-real femdom blogger, I’m supposed to do a proper-for-real end-of-year (EOY) roundup full of stats and reflection and forward-looking statements about goals and such things, especially since it’s the end of the decade. Phew!
I’m not going to do that, though.
What I want to say in my last post of 2019 is this:
I am lucky and privileged to have this platform to write, and to have you, my lovely readers, to accompany and support me as I go.
So I want to say a huge and heartfelt thank you for being here with me.
My auto-tweetery recently threw out a very old post called ‘Love our lurkers day‘, which was a shout-out to those of you who quietly read along, maybe you listen to my podcast, maybe you follow me on twitter, maybe you buy some books. Even if I don’t hear from you directly: I see you, and I appreciate you. Hello :)! Thank you for being here.
To those of you who venture out of lurkdom (lurkosity? Geez spellcheck, what do you want from me?!) in different ways, maybe you click the ‘love’ button on a post (go on, you know you want to!), or comment on my blog, or ask me a question, or like/retweet/@ me on the twitter, it makes a big difference to feel seen in that way, to get the ‘me too’ and the interaction. That engagement helps to make me feel less alone, to see my kin out there in the world. Thank you for that :).
And to my regular engagers, chatty chatter-ers, @-ers, ‘like’-ers, and friends who I’ve found out here on the internets (or who found me :)), those of you who encourage my endeavours with endless patience and support, I would have jumped off this carousel long ago without you. You are marvellous and valued, and I can’t thank you enough.
My wish for all of you amazing folks is a happy, healthy, and positive year (decade, life!) full of love and light: I hope that much joy comes your way and you manage to grab it with both hands when it does.
Thank you for being here.
28 comments
Lovely sentiment. We appreciate your consistent, high quality writhing, thinking, and talking! Thank you and happy new year!
Thanks so much SSS, and happy new year to you also :).
Ferns
Many years ago I saw this highly intelligent FemDomme posting in FL; supporting newbie’s, offering encouragement, and even once came to my defense in a group. Out of curiosity, I started stalking your blog from beginning to end. I found myself completely entranced by the intelligence, passion, courage, and love you express in your writings for submissive men. I remember thinking “I have got to have this amazing woman in my life!” So I used a question you posed in a group I couldn’t access as an excuse and slid shyly into your Dm. I’ve been blessed ever since to have you as a friend.
You are the voice of inspiration in the BDSM and writing community. It overwhelms me with happiness to see you grow my friend and I *know* your light is only beginning to shine. As a huge fan and a friend, thank you for another year!
P.S Oh, and it’s just an added bonus that you’re still so fucking HOT! :P Oyyy at the pictures and even more Oyyy at the corset *drools*
Respectfully,
Mysticlez
So long ago!!!
Thank you so much for the lovely compliments, and welcome back from your social media hiatus :).
Ferns
What a lovely year en post- full of encouragement, good energy and light! Thank you for your presence in the blogging community!! And oh yeah- SEXY Fotos!! ????
Thank you :)). Not nearly as interesting as YOUR roundup post. Best of luck with your new adventures :).
Ferns
Happy New Year Sharyn
May you make a commanding start to 2020!
And, of course, many more blog posts and podcasts…please.
Happy new year :). And I’ll do my best on the posts & podcasts AND MAYBE MORE*.
*not promising anything, I am not to be trusted :)
Ferns
I hope 2020 treats you very well ????
Ann
Ahh, so nice to see you, and same to you, Ann.
I hope you and yours are (still) blissfully happy out there in the world :).
Ferns
May 2020 be a wonderful year for you!
Thank you, and for you also :).
Ferns
Thank you for sharing that, it is very nice to know. I hope you have a wonderful 2020!
My absolute pleasure, and I hope your 2020 is amazing :).
Ferns
On behalf of all my fellow lurkers, thank you for the kind words!
Thank you for unlurking to speak up for lurkers :).
And you’re most welcome.
Ferns
Happy new year stay awesome
Happy new year to you too, Amina :).
Ferns
May 2020 be what you so richly deserve Ferns, full of adventure, fun and everything you need.
Coug
Thank you so much, Coug <3.
I hope you have a wonderful 2020 also, full of love and cattle prods.
Ferns
PS One of my F/f (right side of the slash) friends wondered if you had any lesbian femdom resources (books, blogs, podcasts etc). If you do please drop some linkage.
Hi Ferns,
The more you show of yourself, the more beautifull you become :-)
Thank you so much for giving us followers so much, it really means a lot to me xxx
Happy New Year and I wish you all the best for 2020
Love Tiptease
What a lovely thing to say, thank you, and it’s my pleasure :).
A very happy new year to you also.
Ferns
Sadly I really don’t, this site is really my only online BDSM presence these days.
Coug
*waves* @coug It was me. Nothing F/f exist other then fantasy writing.
Thank you very much @ Ferns for trying.
Well once you have the best of the best WHY WOULD YOU GO ANYWHERE ELSE :P.
Ferns
2020 will be as difficult for your fine self as for the rest of us.
Yep. Nothing chunky or fun there ….
Is that you, Satan?
Ferns