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Unexpected femdommery on film

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© 'Marcy learns something new (still)' by IMDB

This short femdom film is such a wonderful surprise: Displaying a really gentle touch in portraying an older woman who is new to BDSM, who is exploring, who is unsure and nervous. There are many such brave and fabulous women out there.

It’s written and directed by Julia Kennelly, and stars the amazing Rachel Dratch who I suspect many of you will recognise.

It’s classed as a comedy, but it’s not played for laughs. It’s fun and sweet, and also full of pathos and tenderness. Both for her and the beautiful submissive boy she meets.

It’s deliciously awkward and realistic, … Continue Reading

Loves: 47
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advice/  advice for Dommes/  advice for male subs/  audio/  podcast/  QnA

Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #111 [Audio]

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This ridiculously fabulous femdom podcast Q&A includes the following:

  • Have you tried receptive anal?
  • How to do femdom dirty talk?
  • Punishment vs scene time: How to deal?
  • Suggestions for D/s with kids around
  • What do you charge for a session? [a rant]
  • Should I ask my Mistress to push past what I think I can take?
  • When did you discover your dominance?
  • At a loss for role play to punish him, halp!
  • And more!

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes and Spotify: Subscribe if you want to be sure to get my audio porn delivered straight to … Continue Reading

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musing

The model and the priest

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Public domain mark'Lies' by GDJ

Continuing on with my theme about liars from my previous post: Two stand-outs of ‘men who I didn’t believe, and who I called out’. Neither of them were potential submissives, but still.

The Model

A 6’6 fucking model hottie who was lighting up Fetlife with hot pictures.

OBVIOUSLY stolen photos *eyeroll*.

After quite a few of his photos hit ‘Kinky and Popular*’, thanks to women thirsty for hot bods, I got so annoyed that I challenged him, like ‘come on, dude’.
*(K&P shows photos that get the most loves and comments, and it’s mostly full of very … Continue Reading

Loves: 13
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femdom dating/  musing

Liars and not-liars

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Public domain mark'Crossed fingers' by Peter Timmerhues

Femdom dating is a crap shoot, emphasis on the ‘crap’ sometimes.

I’m not sure I ever wrote about the submissive in the US I said “No thanks” to.

He emailed me, was too young, had no way to afford even a single visit. He was just curious and wanted online attention and shenanigans while pretending he wanted something else.

After I said ‘no thank you’, he contacted me using another name, same IP address (amateur mistake). When I challenged him, he said, “No no I’m just staying with that other guy you talked to, I’m definitely not HIM! I live … Continue Reading

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femdom relationships/  musing

24/7 D/s vs FLR: What’s the difference?

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Public domain mark'Untitled' by Pxhere

There were some conversations on Twitter today about the difference between a 24/7 D/s dynamic and a Female Led Relationship (FLR).

An expanded version of my tweet-thoughts on this below.

The upshot: To me they’re the same thing.

My goal is a 24/7 D/s dynamic.

In my 24/7 D/s dynamic (when I have one), I have the authority in our relationship.

I lead, he follows.

There may be carve-outs that we agree on: For example, I may not have authority over his work or family, we decide what works for us. And that may change over time.

But the bottom … Continue Reading

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