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French vanilla dating

May 30, 2019 10 Comments

Femdom dating, vanilla style…

I have not come up with a nickname for him instinctively. I’m not sure why exactly. Someone clever on Twitter suggested ‘French vanilla’ (as in ‘vanilla with a hint of more’), which would be super cute if he was actually French :). I’m going to go with My Gentleman (MG) for now, because he so is and it’s quite lovely.

Our second date was a traditional old-style dinner date and I liked that a lot.

I genuinely cannot remember the last time I had a very ‘normal’ date (not anyone’s fault, just that the submissives I’ve … Continue Reading

Loves: 22

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Vanilla Date #3, second date!

May 26, 2019 6 Comments

'Untitled' by Tim Savage

This femdom went on another vanilla date… *gasp*.

Let me catch you up here first…

I texted the Hot Older Man and told him I wasn’t in the right headspace for dating. After our date, I’d said be happy to meet up again when I got back from my break away, but it wasn’t feeling right. I was peopled out from peopling and was working way too hard to mentally build up interest that wasn’t really there. He replied politely, wished me well. Mature men are wonderful.

Soon after that, I went onto the vanilla dating site to … Continue Reading

Loves: 28

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femdom relationships/ happy femdom story

Happy femdom story: Theriac

May 22, 2019 9 Comments

Theriac commented on a blog post here about his recent collaring and I invited him to share his happy femdom story.

I’m delighted that he did. It’s super sweet, and goodness knows we need more of that :).
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Author: Theriac

Ten years.

Ten years I went without a lover or a partner. I had friends and family, people I was close to, but no romantic partners. Not one.

I had known since I was quite young that I was profoundly, intrinsically submissive, but I spent my Teens and Twenties running from those feelings, downplaying them, pushing them into the … Continue Reading

Loves: 17

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advice/ advice for Dommes/ advice for male subs/ audio/ podcast/ QnA

Reader Q&A: Femdom Podcast #105 [Audio]

May 20, 2019 12 Comments

This femdom Q&A includes the following:

Subs as footstools: What do you think?
Is my dom mad? Why does he want this?
How long can a man go without orgasms?
Who was your favourite fictional teddy bear?
Why not just choose a vanilla man?
Busted at airport security!
Public signalling of D/s tendencies
“I’m a right wing arsehole and submissive, soooo…”
How do I get my vanilla partner to be my dominant?
And more!

The Domme Chronicles podcast is available on iTunes, so you can subscribe to it if you want to be sure to get my audio porn … Continue Reading

Loves: 8

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e[lust] #118

May 20, 2019 No Comments

Welcome to Elust 118–

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #119? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!