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e[lust] #54

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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

How children will break UK Internet filters.
Submissive, Not Passive
When Sex and Disabilities Collide

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

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Domme Chronicles book/  Domme Chronicles book review

Book reviews equal happies

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I cannot explain how amazing it feels to get a positive review of my book, and when it’s so beautifully written, I get all a-swoon. It is seriously happy making! *happy sighs*

This one is on Amazon.co.uk (reviews on other country’s Amazon sites do not show up on Amazon.com… boo!).

Edited To Add: If you usually use a different country’s amazon site, you can STILL log into amazon.com with your existing details to leave a review on the ‘main’ site! You know… if you were so inclined… *smile*

Intense and direct
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body project/  exercise

Workout crew – end of week update

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At the beginning of the week, each of the Ferns workout crew members made a commitment to do a certain number of workouts for the week.

Let’s see how see all went against our goals shall we? *puts on glasses, gets out evaluation sheets*

Ferns – 3
DONE! Not my best work with rather light weights and low intensity, but I have a lovely muscle soreness going on, and I went, so a total win!

Peroxide – 4
THREE OUT OF FOUR. It’s a great start (also, it was his birthday, so HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Peroxide!!)

slapshot – 3
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femdom dating/  holy fuck beautiful eyes/  sent emails/  vanilla

My sent emails XXXIX – OKCupid version

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The OKCupid version (yes, I joined a vanilla dating site: more on this later!).

These are random emails I have sent out to men whose profiles I liked (as opposed to replies to emails that landed in my inbox).

To be clear, the first three were not potential matches: I just like to send out compliments to people when I see something interesting. It’s fun to say sweet things to people. It’s also stress free and you just never know what sort of conversations you might strike up out of a random compliment thrown into the void.

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musing

Defining ‘the pretty’

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I make no secret of the fact that I love the pretty.

It’s true. I do.

And I know that I might give the impression that I have a very narrow definition of what that means.

But that’s not true.

Objectively, I have a body type that I like on a man. For sure. It’s tall, V-shaped, with lean muscle (not bulky), an adonis belt, a six pack, veins that stand out, narrow waist, wide shoulders. Stereotypical, sure. But that’s what turns my head, mostly in the form of gorgeous photos and men I see at the gym doing fabulous … Continue Reading

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body project/  exercise

Workout crew – into the new year!

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I’m trying something new to kick the Ferns Workout Crew (#fwocrew) into the new year.

I took a look at all of our public workout logs over the weekend and noticed a distinct lack of activity for most of us (me included) in the last few (erm… many?!) weeks. Completely understandable of course: I mean, holidays, Christmas, food, booze, travel etc. Mysticlez218 has been the standout with consistently awesome gym-going and good eating habits.

So this week, I’ve asked all of my esteemed workout buddies to commit to a number of workouts for the week. I’m posting it … Continue Reading

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QnA

Reader Q&A: Singledom & accents

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I am blearily coming out of my December stupor of socialising, eating everything in sight, and drinking more than I ever need to. The normal routine of life will return shortly: shaking myself off, heading back to the gym next week. I’m expecting to have more energy to devote to things not involving making nice, and shoving things in my mouth, so perhaps more bloggery activity.

In the meantime, some lovely readers have landed in my inbox via my Ask Me page. Well, hello there!!

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