A reader question:
“In a recent thread on FetLife you mentioned that you use punishment as part of your dynamic, while both recognizing and agreeing with the reasons some do not.
How does punishment work in your relationships? Removal of privileges? Some kind of physical punishment? Something else entirely?”
I did mention that, yes. For the record, my comment is here (requires Fetlife login), and the pertinent paragraph was:
… Continue ReadingThose who don’t like punishment dynamics generally fall into three camps: The ‘Talk about it!’ camp, the ‘He’s not a child’ camp or the ‘It doesn’t work’ camp. I get a