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Happy femdom stories – Anonymous

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I asked for happy femdom relationship stories, and I’m excited to say that this is the first of them.

This is the email that started my day out with a smile yesterday, and prompted my call out for more fabulous positive femdom relationship stories. I am delighted that the sender has given me permission to share it!  Thank you!

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Author: Anonymous

I’ve been following your blog for awhile now, and I see so much of myself in you. But I used to feel so much envy when you would describe your past relationship with your boy, and I would … Continue Reading

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femdom relationships/  happy femdom story

Wanted: Happy femdom stories!

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Public domain markAdapted from 'Wooden Heart' by George Hodan

I received an email this morning, a happy-making email from a young Domme who has found her boy, is happy, in love, and bursting with joy.

Oh. My. God. Lovely!!!!

You know what?

I want more of these stories, I want to post them on my blog, I want readers to see that it happens, that it can work, that people are happily living in some kind of femdom relationship that doesn’t involve her being a cranky bitch and wearing latex and stilettos 24/7 or him concentrating on being as worthless as possible at all times.

Any stories are fine, … Continue Reading

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musing/  my boy

I fucking miss you

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I spoke of vulnerability before… here it is:

I posted my secret here (yes, it’s old, you know, of course, that I will not reveal the difficult things until they are behind me…!).

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sent emails

My sent emails XXII

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Normally, the sent email is enough to tell the story, but this is one where I have to include the emails that arrived in my inbox for context…

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5:51 PM
Hi Ferns. We chatted a while back. Still keen to serve. RealName (PlaceOfEmployment)

[I vaguely remember him, mainly because he is local and gave me his real name and employment credentials within a few emails last time. I recall patiently telling him to treat me like a normal human being and have a conversation with me, but I can’t remember any details of the previous exchange. I read the

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play

Another drink?

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I glance sideways at you, catch your eye. You are watching me. I know that look, it says “Here I am, Ma’am…”, it invites and challenges me, it waits.

I smirk at you, watch you blush. I know you want to look away now that you have caught my attention. Now that you have what you want you aren’t quite sure what to do with it.

I turn to face you and you hold your breath, steel yourself, shore yourself up. Oh my fucking god, so unbearably hot. It tugs at my cunt, makes my heart thump in my chest, … Continue Reading

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QnA/  survey

Survey 2011 Results part IV

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Ha! You didn’t think I was done milking sharing the survey results, did you? Now comes a million posts with the free form text answers…

Why do you read my blog?

bi-curious (i.e. straight, never tried the other thang) Male, Unsure, 46-55

you shut down a mind fuck ijnquiry thread on fetlife, that i wanted to contribute to. i think you were wrong. she asked for examples of mindfucks, and she got stomped as a porno- parasite. and i clicked on your hyper link.

Pffftt… I’m never wrong, and the fact that I have no recollection as to what you … Continue Reading

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about me/  musing

A Domme’s vulnerability

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After all the talk of the amazing openness and vulnerability that I wish for from my submissive, I’ve been considering posting something that shows me at my most vulnerable. It is scary, the showing, even though it doesn’t really matter because the actual terrifying part of doing it is already done, is over.

I rarely take emotional risks, and when I do, they are quiet risks, whispered into someone’s ear, tentatively put on the table for the taking, and this was a quiet risk also. It is the sharing that makes it noisy and loud; that gives me pause, though … Continue Reading

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