More happiness from a self described ‘pessimistic bastard’ (he’s really not though, he’s thoughtful and funny and loves cookies)… He followed up the original story with a wonderful bounce-worthy update at the end (no peeking!).
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Author: roo-roo
My domme and I have been officially in a relationship for 8 months now, and we dated for a couple months prior to that. We met at one of the local munches. At the next munch a couple weeks later, we talked some more, and I asked her out. It progressed like any other relationship, with us gradually growing closer to each other. The d/s also slowly built over time, keeping pace with the trust.
We have clear bilateral communication. If any problems arise, we work on them as equals to ensure a solution that won’t cause resentment or problems later on. Our relationship is based on love; everything else is built on top of that. We can be goofy with each other. We can relax. We get warm fuzzies. We have really hot sex. We go to massive bdsm events, and we also sit at home and do nothing.
The d/s does extend outside the bedroom/dungeon as well. It’s not overwhelming or always obvious, and it surfaces more prevalently at times. The d/s is more of a background hum that she can call to the forefront at any time. Sometimes the d/s is barely perceptible, and other times she pushes me reeeeeeally hard. I love that she has the power to (and the desire to) do that.
Some people say that certain activities only happen in femdom porn. Not true. We also do the femdom-porn stuff- foot worship, strap-on sex, ball-kicking, leather, piss play, etc. Obviously we don’t keep that up 24/7, but it does happen. Sometimes she’s in leather and heels, while other times she’s in old jeans and a t-shirt. She doesn’t do the “I’m better than you” stuff; she is always herself, not some icy robobitch. After all, she is who I love, and I’d be disappointed if she suddenly changed into someone completely different.
Update: (roo-roo was kind enough to send me this most wonderful smile-inducing update… Exciting!!!)
Just wanted to share this update to my happy story. My birthday was this past Friday. Her present to me was collaring me. Wheeeeeeeee!!!! You wouldn’t believe how happy this makes me!
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This post is part of a project to share happy, positive femdom relationship stories. If you have a story and are willing to share it, please email it to me (ferns at domme-chronicles dot com).
5 comments
Congratulations on a happy situation!
And – I think this is the fella from Fetlife who has a photo of himself duct-taped to a wall (off the floor)? It is awesome! I so want to do that to mine!
-MistressKimm
@MistressKimm- Thank you! You're right, I'm the one duct-taped to a wall :o) If you want to try it, it's not hard. I was saran-wrapped first, then stood on a bench while 2 people taped me up. Then they removed the bench. It was a lot of fun!
*smile* It IS an awesome story. And for anyone who wants to see 'fabulous man duct taped to a wall' and are too lazy to go searching, it's here… Brilliant!
Ferns
Awwww.. Big congrats Roo-roo!
And yes, love the duct tape photo.
Aww, that is such a sweet story. And I freaking love the duct tape photo.